Promise rings for men

In the market for the best Promise Rings For Men? Our team has researched and reviewed these promise rings for him and her to help you come up with a better decision. We’ve also put up a shopping guide with the features you can consider when buying mens promise rings under 100.

The promise ring is a ring that is given to a man by a woman as a symbol of commitment and often considered as a man’s engagement ring.

These rings can also symbolize other emotions, quite often a ring will be exchanged between friends or family members as a gesture of love and an eternal friendship.

There is no rule when it comes to which finger a ring should be worn, generally speaking if the engagement then the ring is worn on the left hand and then moved to the right hand once the wedding has taken place. If the ring is for friendship, then the right hand will avoid any confusion of romantic ties between the giver and receiver.

There are many styles of promise rings, your budget and the promise itself will determine which type of ring you chose, if it is for engagement you may consider a diamond promise ring if the ring is a simple promise of friendship then a plain ring with the word friendship engraved on it may suit you better.

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What Is a Promise Ring? The Real Meaning

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History of Promise Rings

According to Brinkman, the idea of giving a ring as a promise of love and affection dates back several hundred years. Posy rings—so named because they were engraved with romantic poems—date back to 16th-century England, while Acrostic rings—spelling out a word in gemstones, for example, a ruby, emerald, garnet, amethyst, ruby and diamond spelling “regard”—were popular in the Georgian and Victorian eras.

It’s only in the past decade that promise rings have become a mainstream trend, largely thanks to the publicity surrounding famous owners of such rings like the Jonas brothers and Miley Cyrus. Though, thanks to the young celebrities’ public declarations—in 2008, Joe Jonas told Details that the brothers’ rings symbolized “a promise to ourselves and to God that we’ll stay pure till marriage”—promise rings became synonymous with purity rings. “Some people have gotten the terminology confused,” Brinkman says. “When you talk about abstinence, and a ring given by a parent to a child, or to oneself, it’s called a purity ring.” Promise rings, on the other hand, are typically given as a token of commitment within the confines of a romantic relationship.

The tradition of wearing a ring to demonstrate loyalty and fidelity dates back to ancient times, says Brinkman, who states there’s evidence that Roman brides wore engagement bands in the 2nd century BC. The reason they’re typically worn on the ring finger of the left hand, she says, is because there’s a vein that runs from that finger to the heart.

Promise Ring Etiquette

Although it doesn’t carry the same levity of an engagement ring, a promise ring should not be treated lightly. “A promise ring should be given after a couple has dated for a significant amount of time—a year or more—to show how serious you are about the relationship,” says Kelly McLeskey-Dolata, founder of Bay Area event planning and design company A Savvy Event.

In terms of style, anything goes when it comes to promise rings. Common themes include hearts, intertwined designs to commemorate the idea of a couple’s union, Claddagh rings and eternity rings, as well as bands with a mosaic or composite of stones. “Engagement rings have such a sacred nature; promise rings are often viewed as more of a fashion piece,” says Brinkman, who cautions against choosing a style that might compete with an engagement ring, if that’s your eventual intention. “They both serve a purpose,” Brinkman says. “You want to make sure they don’t look the same—or even close.” For ideas, browse The Knot roundup of promise rings you can buy now.

Unlike with engagement rings, there are no rules or guidelines around how much to spend on promise rings, but it’s usually significantly less. At Simon G. Jewelry, promise rings typically range from $500 to $2,000; at Kay Jewelers, they range from $199 to $599. “Remember, most people purchasing promise rings are younger and don’t have the financial means to be spending a lot of money,” McLeskey-Dolata says.

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There’s also no right or wrong way to give a promise ring. It doesn’t require the same “on bended knee” tradition as engagement rings, and they’re most often given as a birthday, Valentine’s or Christmas gift, McLeskey-Dolata says. A romantic dinner for two is sufficient to set the scene. “In the case of a promise ring, it’s more of a conversation about the meaning behind it, and the promise that’s being made,” Brinkman explains. “Whereas for an engagement, the focus is on the ring and the ‘moment.'”

Which finger does it go on? It’s entirely up to the individual. Promise rings can be worn on any finger, Brinkman says, adding that they’re sometimes even worn on a chain around the neck. But usually promise rings are worn on the ring finger of the left hand (if not married) or the right hand (if married).

While promise rings are intended to be a lifelong vow, we all know that things don’t always go according to plan. Even if the pledge is rescinded, promise rings are not always returned. “It depends on the nature of the breakup,” Brinkman says.

Everything You Need to Know About Promise Rings

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As you may know, engagement rings and wedding rings are traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because there’s a vein within the finger that runs straight to the heart. Their presence on the hand is a comfort, and their circular shape stands for a love without end. Evidence shows that thousands of years ago, ancient Egyptians gave their brides rings to symbolize immortal love, and sometime later Roman men would use the presenting of rings to women as a sign of ownership. Wedding rings and engagement bands have been around for centuries, but what about promise rings?

When did the idea of promise rings first arise, how are they any different than engagement rings, and what is the proper etiquette for promise rings? From all the romantics at Mountz Jewelers, we would love to explore this rich history with you!

What Is a Promise Ring?

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To some people, promise rings might seem superfluous or unnecessary. If you’re going to get engaged anyway, why invent a step between dating and betrothed? Why not skip that step entirely and move straight to the engagement ring? Promise rings are a symbol of commitment or devotion between couples. Think of them as a token of love, much like the days when high school boys would give their girlfriends their class rings. It shows that you are exclusively dating, and it’s a way to express your passion when words fall short.

Taking the plunge and investing in a promise ring has a deeper meaning behind it than simply updating your relationship status on Facebook. A promise ring is a physical symbol of a romantic connection, a sign that you’re promising yourselves to each other. It could hold the underlying pledge that you will always be faithful to each other, make better choices for one another, or make sacrifices for the good of the relationship. Some people use promise rings to share that engagement is in their future. For whatever reason — whether it is furthering their education, building up their finances, or simply that they’re too young — they are not ready to commit to marriage at the moment, but they know it’s something they want eventually. Others who exchange promise rings have no intention of ever getting married. They may think the concept is archaic or that they don’t want to be tied down for their entire lives, but they still want a symbol of their current relationship’s significance. That’s perfectly okay as well! We all have our own views on love and dating, and some people simply want to take their relationship for what it is — no more, no less.

The Origin of Promise Rings

The idea of giving a ring as a promise of love and affection wasn’t pulled out of thin air by young people of today.  It actually dates pretty far back. While not as old as wedding rings or engagement rings, promise rings that match our modern definition appeared as early as 1576.Related imageOne type of promise ring was called a posy ring, which originated in England in the 16th century. They were named as such because they were engraved with lines from romantic poems or other short messages. Some examples of inscriptions on discovered posy rings are “united hearts death only parts” and “let us share in joy and care.” A couple centuries later, during the Georgian and Victorian eras, acrostic rings became popular. The gemstones in these rings were arranged to spell out words, like a secret message. For instance, putting lapis, opal, verdelite, and emerald together on a ring spells the word “love” — the first letter of each stone’s name creates the acrostic. If a couple was not in the best place financially to buy a home or start a family, they would display their intentions of marriage with a promise ring. Also, if a man could not afford an engagement ring, he would offer his companion a promise ring as a placeholder. Women did not start giving promise rings to men until around the 20th century.

Other Meanings Behind Promise Rings

Many people nowadays ascribe whatever meaning they want to promise rings. For instance, some women give promise rings to their friends to indicate their platonic bond with each other. This is much like weaving together friendship bracelets or buying half-heart necklaces with a close friend. You could even purchase a promise ring for yourself that holds personal significance. It could be something that provides a gentle nudge about an aspiration or goal, a symbol of your religious beliefs, something that commemorates an important event, or a celebration of a certain achievement — the options are endless! Though promise rings can serve whatever purpose you desire, most often they are used as a promise of romantic love or a pre-engagement ring.

How Do Promise Rings Differ From Purity Rings?

Some people use the terms “promise ring” and “purity ring” interchangeably, but they’re different. Purity rings, or chastity rings, have a different history and motivation behind them than promise rings. The trend of purity rings arose in the 1990s, and they are largely associated with religious groups. They are meant to be a symbol of remaining abstinent until marriage. Typically, purity rings are presented to daughters by their parents, or the wearer purchases the ring for themselves. Then, traditionally, the purity ring is replaced with a wedding band on the day of their marriage.

What Type of Promise Ring Should You Get?

It can be difficult to decide what kind of promise ring best suits your needs. The decision hinges on many factors, such as the nature of your relationship, your budget, and your individual style. These should all be kept in mind while you browse. If you view your promise ring as not only a romantic symbol but also a fashion piece, there’s no limit to your options. A few common choices are a birthstone ring or a mosaic of gemstones. These make a statement, showcase your personality, and have a deeper meaning for your relationship. Popular promise rings for her feature heart shapes or infinity symbols. When it comes to choosing a bit of sparkle for her finger, it’s nice to find something that has both romantic connotations and a sense of feminine beauty. Hearts and infinity signs are timelessly elegant, as well as a great way to symbolize your eternal love and devotion.Image result for couples wearing promise ringRings with intertwined designs, such as two tone or three tone gold rings, work well for either him or her. After all, if you’re seeking a symbol for your unity, you probably don’t want part of the pair to be left out. Promise rings for him may have a modern twist design, or they could be something more subtle and classic like a silver gemstone ring. You could trust your instincts or leave it to him to decide. One unique idea for a promise ring is a traditional Irish Claddagh ring. The design of a Claddagh ring represents love, loyalty, and friendship. Something else to consider is having your promise ring inscribed. Picking out a phrase that represents your commitment and engraving it inside can be extremely meaningful. However, if you like the concept of eventually building onto the promise ring when you get engaged or married, you need to think a bit differently. You should shift your mindset to looking for a versatile design that lends itself to becoming a bigger piece. For example, you could customize it by adding another band. With this in mind, try to keep things simple. As mentioned before, it’s totally acceptable to get a promise ring in sterling silver. If you have the means to splurge, a gold promise ring or a stackable ring with diamonds or other precious stones is also completely okay. There are no strict rules for how expensive the ring should be, but there’s nothing wrong with spending less than you would on an engagement ring.

Promise Ring Etiquette

Though many may downplay the significance of promise rings, they should not be given lightly. Rather, they should be taken seriously by a genuinely committed couple who knows they want a future together in some capacity. There’s no definitive promise ring etiquette, but here are some rough guidelines you could follow:As with all other matters in a relationship, communication is key when taking a meaningful step that leads to the wearing of promise rings. Both parties need to know what the rings would symbolize for their relationship, what they want for the present, and what their vision is for the union in the future. Once everything has been established, a promise ring could be given at any time. It could be presented on a birthday, Valentine’s Day, a milestone anniversary, Christmas, or even over a candlelit dinner for two on any day of the week. All that matters is that the setting is reasonably romantic to mark the occasion. The promise ring doesn’t have to come from a fancy jewelry box while on bended knee. Yes, it’s a ring with romantic connotations, but does not mean you should model things after a proposal. It isn’t about the drama in the presentation. It’s about reinforcing the meaning of the ring and the intended trajectory of the relationship. Make sure to clarify in the moment that it is a promise ring and explain your intentions behind it. Do not let it be interpreted as an engagement ring and send the wrong message. Another note about promise ring etiquette is that there’s no official finger it should be worn on. If it’s a romantic promise ring, it can be slipped onto whichever finger you choose. While unmarried, you can wear it on the ring finger of your left hand. You can eventually switch the finger you wear it on if you become engaged and want to continue wearing your promise ring. To avoid confusing it for an engagement ring, sometimes promise rings are worn on the middle finger of the left hand or on a chain around the neck. If the promise ring happens to be a symbol of friendship or another personal meaning, you probably shouldn’t wear it on your left ring finger. Unfortunately, in spite of the best of intentions and the exchanging of promise rings, sometimes relationships end. Depending on the nature of the breakup, promise rings don’t necessarily have to be returned. They aren’t supposed to be super pricey, so they can be safely pawned, given away, or tucked in your closet as a fond memento until you meet the person you do want to marry someday.

Purchase a Promise Ring for Your Loved One Today

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There’s more to promise rings than meets the eye. They are a declaration of love that has been around for centuries — not a meaningless gesture prompted by infatuation. They are distinct from engagement rings and purity rings, and they’re a perfect way to express your feelings when songs, letters, and love poems can’t quite capture them. Mountz Jewelers has an expansive selection of commitment rings that aren’t only for weddings or engagements. Whether you’re seeking out promise rings for her, or you want promise rings for men to match, you’re sure to find something gorgeous in our selection. From birthstone rings to two tone gold rings to classic bands, there’s something for everyone. Trust your special moments to Mountz.

What is a Promise Ring?

Image result for couples wearing promise ringClearing up the confusion between promise rings and engagement rings.

Image result for how to wear promise rings for her cheapThere are big and small differences between a promise ring and an engagement ring. Some are material — like the size of the diamond or gemstone and expense — and some are emotional.

Simply put, you give or get an engagement ring when you want to spend your lives together, after the proposal has been enthusiastically accepted. The reasons for giving and getting promise rings vary, and often only the wearer and giver know what the promise is.

A couple things

What the promise ring symbolizes between couples is highly individual, but most often it represents love and commitment. That could be a promise to someday become engaged at an unspecified time, perhaps after graduation, the end of a stint overseas or when it’s easier financially.

Promise rings are gaining popularity among couples that may not feel the need to put a label on their relationship or stick to a timetable. For them, a ring is an outside symbol to people who move in together and have no immediate plans for marriage but are clearly in a committed relationship. If an engagement ring comes along in the future, the promise ring often moves over to the opposite hand.

Other relationships

Promise rings can be exchanged between friends, pledging friendship forever. Promise rings may also be given by a parent to a child as a way of saying “I’ll love you forever.” Promise rings may also be known as purity rings, and represent a pledge of abstinence. They can be worn as a promise of anything, really, like a commitment to faith, to a goal, or a pledge to break a bad habit.

Other considerations

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Promise rings typically are smaller and subtler than engagement rings, and may or may not be worn on the traditional wedding band finger. Diamonds are popular, but in smaller sizes or clusters, or with gemstones — usually the focus is not on the diamond, but on the overall design.

Metals, too, are often different. While 18K and 14K gold and platinum lead the way for engagement rings and wedding bands, 10K gold or sterling silver are more affordable and popular options for promise rings.

You’ll find a variety of motifs such as infinity symbols, single or entwined hearts or Claddagh rings.

Whatever the reason you want to give or get a promise ring, it’s a beautiful, tangible symbol of love and commitment.

Everything You Need to Know About Promise Rings

Image result for engagement photosAs you may know, engagement rings and wedding rings are traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because there’s a vein within the finger that runs straight to the heart. Their presence on the hand is a comfort, and their circular shape stands for a love without end. Evidence shows that thousands of years ago, ancient Egyptians gave their brides rings to symbolize immortal love, and sometime later Roman men would use the presenting of rings to women as a sign of ownership. Wedding rings and engagement bands have been around for centuries, but what about promise rings?When did the idea of promise rings first arise, how are they any different than engagement rings, and what is the proper etiquette for promise rings? From all the romantics at Mountz Jewelers, we would love to explore this rich history with you!

What Is a Promise Ring?

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To some people, promise rings might seem superfluous or unnecessary. If you’re going to get engaged anyway, why invent a step between dating and betrothed? Why not skip that step entirely and move straight to the engagement ring? Promise rings are a symbol of commitment or devotion between couples. Think of them as a token of love, much like the days when high school boys would give their girlfriends their class rings. It shows that you are exclusively dating, and it’s a way to express your passion when words fall short.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WGz6nqPiac Taking the plunge and investing in a promise ring has a deeper meaning behind it than simply updating your relationship status on Facebook. A promise ring is a physical symbol of a romantic connection, a sign that you’re promising yourselves to each other. It could hold the underlying pledge that you will always be faithful to each other, make better choices for one another, or make sacrifices for the good of the relationship. Some people use promise rings to share that engagement is in their future. For whatever reason — whether it is furthering their education, building up their finances, or simply that they’re too young — they are not ready to commit to marriage at the moment, but they know it’s something they want eventually. Others who exchange promise rings have no intention of ever getting married. They may think the concept is archaic or that they don’t want to be tied down for their entire lives, but they still want a symbol of their current relationship’s significance. That’s perfectly okay as well! We all have our own views on love and dating, and some people simply want to take their relationship for what it is — no more, no less.  

The Origin of Promise Rings

The idea of giving a ring as a promise of love and affection wasn’t pulled out of thin air by young people of today.  It actually dates pretty far back. While not as old as wedding rings or engagement rings, promise rings that match our modern definition appeared as early as 1576.

One type of promise ring was called a posy ring, which originated in England in the 16th century. They were named as such because they were engraved with lines from romantic poems or other short messages. Some examples of inscriptions on discovered posy rings are “united hearts death only parts” and “let us share in joy and care.” A couple centuries later, during the Georgian and Victorian eras, acrostic rings became popular. The gemstones in these rings were arranged to spell out words, like a secret message. For instance, putting lapis, opal, verdelite, and emerald together on a ring spells the word “love” — the first letter of each stone’s name creates the acrostic. If a couple was not in the best place financially to buy a home or start a family, they would display their intentions of marriage with a promise ring. Also, if a man could not afford an engagement ring, he would offer his companion a promise ring as a placeholder. Women did not start giving promise rings to men until around the 20th century.

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Other Meanings Behind Promise Rings

Many people nowadays ascribe whatever meaning they want to promise rings. For instance, some women give promise rings to their friends to indicate their platonic bond with each other. This is much like weaving together friendship bracelets or buying half-heart necklaces with a close friend. You could even purchase a promise ring for yourself that holds personal significance. It could be something that provides a gentle nudge about an aspiration or goal, a symbol of your religious beliefs, something that commemorates an important event, or a celebration of a certain achievement — the options are endless! Though promise rings can serve whatever purpose you desire, most often they are used as a promise of romantic love or a pre-engagement ring.

How Do Promise Rings Differ From Purity Rings?

Some people use the terms “promise ring” and “purity ring” interchangeably, but they’re different. Purity rings, or chastity rings, have a different history and motivation behind them than promise rings. The trend of purity rings arose in the 1990s, and they are largely associated with religious groups. They are meant to be a symbol of remaining abstinent until marriage. Typically, purity rings are presented to daughters by their parents, or the wearer purchases the ring for themselves. Then, traditionally, the purity ring is replaced with a wedding band on the day of their marriage.

What Type of Promise Ring Should You Get?

It can be difficult to decide what kind of promise ring best suits your needs. The decision hinges on many factors, such as the nature of your relationship, your budget, and your individual style. These should all be kept in mind while you browse. If you view your promise ring as not only a romantic symbol but also a fashion piece, there’s no limit to your options. A few common choices are a birthstone ring or a mosaic of gemstones. These make a statement, showcase your personality, and have a deeper meaning for your relationship. Popular promise rings for her feature heart shapes or infinity symbols. When it comes to choosing a bit of sparkle for her finger, it’s nice to find something that has both romantic connotations and a sense of feminine beauty. Hearts and infinity signs are timelessly elegant, as well as a great way to symbolize your eternal love and devotion.

Rings with intertwined designs, such as two tone or three tone gold rings, work well for either him or her. After all, if you’re seeking a symbol for your unity, you probably don’t want part of the pair to be left out. Promise rings for him may have a modern twist design, or they could be something more subtle and classic like a silver gemstone ring. You could trust your instincts or leave it to him to decide. One unique idea for a promise ring is a traditional Irish Claddagh ring. The design of a Claddagh ring represents love, loyalty, and friendship. Something else to consider is having your promise ring inscribed. Picking out a phrase that represents your commitment and engraving it inside can be extremely meaningful. However, if you like the concept of eventually building onto the promise ring when you get engaged or married, you need to think a bit differently. You should shift your mindset to looking for a versatile design that lends itself to becoming a bigger piece. For example, you could customize it by adding another band. With this in mind, try to keep things simple. As mentioned before, it’s totally acceptable to get a promise ring in sterling silver. If you have the means to splurge, a gold promise ring or a stackable ring with diamonds or other precious stones is also completely okay. There are no strict rules for how expensive the ring should be, but there’s nothing wrong with spending less than you would on an engagement ring.

Promise Ring Etiquette

Though many may downplay the significance of promise rings, they should not be given lightly. Rather, they should be taken seriously by a genuinely committed couple who knows they want a future together in some capacity. There’s no definitive promise ring etiquette, but here are some rough guidelines you could follow:

  • You and your significant other should have been dating at least a year, if not longer, before a promise ring becomes an appropriate gift.
  • A promise ring might be ideal if a proper engagement ring isn’t currently within your budget.
  • If you want a way to show your partner how serious you are about being with them and where the relationship is heading, the answer could be a promise ring.
  • Promise rings often come into play when, based on life circumstances, neither of you are ready to be engaged quite yet.
  • When investing in a promise ring, you should be prepared to make a bigger commitment and look for a way to outwardly express it.

As with all other matters in a relationship, communication is key when taking a meaningful step that leads to the wearing of promise rings. Both parties need to know what the rings would symbolize for their relationship, what they want for the present, and what their vision is for the union in the future. Once everything has been established, a promise ring could be given at any time. It could be presented on a birthday, Valentine’s Day, a milestone anniversary, Christmas, or even over a candlelit dinner for two on any day of the week. All that matters is that the setting is reasonably romantic to mark the occasion. The promise ring doesn’t have to come from a fancy jewelry box while on bended knee. Yes, it’s a ring with romantic connotations, but does not mean you should model things after a proposal. It isn’t about the drama in the presentation. It’s about reinforcing the meaning of the ring and the intended trajectory of the relationship. Make sure to clarify in the moment that it is a promise ring and explain your intentions behind it. Do not let it be interpreted as an engagement ring and send the wrong message. Another note about promise ring etiquette is that there’s no official finger it should be worn on. If it’s a romantic promise ring, it can be slipped onto whichever finger you choose. While unmarried, you can wear it on the ring finger of your left hand. You can eventually switch the finger you wear it on if you become engaged and want to continue wearing your promise ring. To avoid confusing it for an engagement ring, sometimes promise rings are worn on the middle finger of the left hand or on a chain around the neck. If the promise ring happens to be a symbol of friendship or another personal meaning, you probably shouldn’t wear it on your left ring finger. Unfortunately, in spite of the best of intentions and the exchanging of promise rings, sometimes relationships end. Depending on the nature of the breakup, promise rings don’t necessarily have to be returned. They aren’t supposed to be super pricey, so they can be safely pawned, given away, or tucked in your closet as a fond memento until you meet the person you do want to marry someday.

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Purchase a Promise Ring for Your Loved One Today

There’s more to promise rings than meets the eye. They are a declaration of love that has been around for centuries — not a meaningless gesture prompted by infatuation. They are distinct from engagement rings and purity rings, and they’re a perfect way to express your feelings when songs, letters, and love poems can’t quite capture them. Mountz Jewelers has an expansive selection of commitment rings that aren’t only for weddings or engagements. Whether you’re seeking out promise rings for her, or you want promise rings for men to match, you’re sure to find something gorgeous in our selection. From birthstone rings to two tone gold rings to classic bands, there’s something for everyone. Trust your special moments to Mountz

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