sunday hats for church

In this post, we will review the best Sunday Hats For Church, church hats clearance, cheap church hats, and designer church hats. The church hat is more than just a fashion statement, it’s a part of a long and cherished African American tradition. For hatmakers Evetta Petty, Kathy Anderson and Wanda Chambers, the church hat is a crown, and when a woman puts one on, she becomes a queen. The three milliners have dedicated their lives to crafting elaborate and vibrant hats, seen everywhere from pews of churches to the pages of Vogue. For them, the right hat is a religious experience, a piece of art worn atop the head. Now, they’re hoping to pass the crown down to the next generation.

Sunday Hats For Church

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The English summer season of weddings, christenings and Royal Ascot is now upon us. As a milliner, I often finds myself turning fashion agony aunt as people fret and worry about not only their choice of hat to wear in a church or at the races but also about how to wear it.

The most frequent question I get asked is “Can a lady ever take off her hat in a church service?” The straight answer is “no”, even if you are wearing a large-brimmed Mother of the Bride hat that is blocking the view of all those behind. My advice for those attending a church service – whether it be a baptism, wedding or funeral – is try to keep your hat size “neat” and don’t wear a hat with too wide a brim.

Or wear a fascinator. At the Pippa Middleton (now Matthews) wedding, I had a number of hats worn by guests. The most successful was probably my eye-catching Iris feather hat as it allows guests in the pew behind to see the bride and groom.

For gentlemen, you must always take off your hat the moment you enter a church, or the lunch tent at Ascot, or even if you are sitting down to enjoy a hot dog in the stands. It’s considered seriously faux to be seen eating indoors wearing a hat, especially when inside a building, hotel or marquee.

If you are trying to court a lady, the failure to remove one’s top hat (one prays it is silk) once you step inside a church or grandstand will be held against you. You should also doff your hat to say the briefest “hello” on encountering a female acquaintance or friend outside the church or on a lawn at, say, Ascot.

The biggest problem these days is social ignorance. As a society milliner whose creations are stocked in shops such as Fenwick and Fortnum & Mason and who also makes bespoke hats for racing royalty (and some real royalty), I’m often asked about the social codes of hat wearing.

Most people think that it’s enough to know that the general rule is “hats off indoors for men” and “hats on indoors for ladies”. But the etiquette for both sexes is not as simple as that. According to various wedding etiquette guides, for example, ladies are meant to take their cue from the mother of the bride when it comes to the correct moment for removing hats at the wedding breakfast.

But this is not correct, as I have been assured by no less an etiquette authority than Julian Fellowes, the Ampleforth-educated creator of Downton Abbey. “The only time a lady takes her hat off is in the bedroom,” he once told me.

So what is the correct form if the mother of the bride at a wedding breakfast removes her hat the moment she sits down at her table? The answer is that you should ignore her. Mothers of the bride should know better and set an example by having their hat clamped to their head all day.

For men at Royal Ascot, do not even think about trying to walk anywhere outside in the Royal Enclosure without wearing your hat. You will be ejected. The other times men take off their hats is for the playing of the national anthem; when there is a flag-raising ceremony; during funerals; in public lifts; and in all churches.

I often see friends at a wedding removing their hat in the loo, freshening their make-up, and then emerging with hat in hand, all ready to enjoy flirting with the man seated next to them. You can hardly blame any girl for removing their hat once the wedding formalities are over. Leaning across over the meringue and strawberries to make eye contact with a man while wearing a wide brimmed hat is neither easy nor effective as a flirting technique.

Kissing while wearing a hat is an especially tricky area. At a charity cricket lunch I once found myself sitting next to the former England captain David Gower. When he learnt I was a milliner, all he wanted to know was whether I could create a hat that allowed two people to politely exchange kisses on each cheek. He had a point. When a woman is wearing a large wide-brimmed hat, like my Delphinium hat, kissing her on the cheek while keeping the hat in place is almost impossible.

So what is the kissing etiquette for two acquaintances who encounter each other outside a church or in the Royal Enclosure at Ascot? Should you just stick to air kissing, like the Europeans?

The trouble with kissing in hats is that hats were never intended to be an instrument of sexual negotiation or affection. Rather the opposite. Hat tipping was a feudal gesture which originated with chivalric knights lifting their face visors (still a millinery term) before a tournament to show that they were indeed who they claimed to be, in the interests of keeping knightly tournaments a gentlemanly business.

When knights no longer jousted in helmets, this visor-lifting became part of the military salute. It was a sign of respect – in the same way that Jewish ladies can wear dress hats in a synagogue. In the Edwardian era, it would have been unthinkable for anybody to try kissing in public – even a peck on the cheek was considered risqué.

how to wear a hat – The ultimate guide

how to wear a hat – The ultimate guide

Hats are less commonly worn these days but they are an accessory that can really elevate your style.

Let’s examine types of hats and  how to wear a hat so you can look stylish and stay warm (or cool).

How to wear a hat and when

In the past, hats were much more common. There were times when it was considered rude for women to go outside without wearing a hat!

Nowadays, though, rules and expectations are different.

You can certainly wear hats with any outfit you choose, and many bold dressers like The Style Crone and Suzanne Carillo wear them often and with great flair.

And there are virtually no times when women are required or expected to wear hats, but a few times when it will be more appropriate than others:

When you may want to wear a hat

When it’s cold outside: Obviously, if your head is going to freeze without one, pick out a cozy hat!

At Church or other religious places: Plenty of women go without, but hats are still somewhat common for church.

At the races: Do you go to the horse races? If you do, depending on the event and which enclosure you are in, you might like to wear a hat.

At weddings and garden parties: This is a fun time to pick out and wear a fancier hat.

This article from Emily Post has great tips for when women are and are not expected to remove their hats. Some of them surprised me!

How to wear a hat: Types of hats

There are many variations on hat styles, but most of them are drawn from the following basic shapes.

Fedora hat

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A fedora is a soft brimmed hat, often made from felt, with a curled brim and creased crown.

This style is drawn directly from menswear and is still worn by men, too. Fedoras are great with tomboyish or androgynous looks, but can also work well with outfits that have feminine elements.

Fedoras were once part of smart menswear looks, but are definitely a casual hat for women. They can be worn as winter hats, too, in milder climates.

Most often, fedoras are pulled down on the head to sit just above the brow line.

NOAKE wool fedora |

NOAKE wool fedora

Nadine (above) looks fabulous in her neutral fedora. You can get a similar fedora hat from Brixton.

How to wear a panama hat

Similar to the fedora, but the panama usually features a higher crown and is made with natural fibers to keep you cool in warmer climes.

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Halogen panama hat |

Halogen panama hat

Catherine (above) opts for a classic, lightweight panama. Here is a similar panama hat from Rachel Parcell.

Women’s hat styles: Trilby 

The trilby is also similar to the fedora, though it has a shorter brim.

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Daesan trilby |

Daesan trilby

Oxana (above) opts for an all-neutral palette. You can get a similar hat from Beechfield.

Wearing a hat: Beret

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A beret is a round, soft, brimless hat with a tight band that sits around the head.

Most of us associate berets with the French, though berets have also been a part of many military uniforms over the years.

Berets are generally casual, though certain versions can be quite dressy.

There has been much discussion about the “right” way to wear a beret, but you can really wear this hat however you’d like.

While some prefer to pull their beret down somewhat, others may position the hat so most of it drapes off to one side, some set it toward the back of the head. Experiment to see what looks best to you.

Halogen beret |

Halogen beret

Patricia (above) matches her beret to her sweater. Check out this similar beret from Amazon.

Hat styles: Cloche

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A cloche is bell-shaped and typically made from stiffer, sturdy material, though some are knit and floppy.

Cloches can flare out to have slight brims, but don’t have defined brims like fedoras. Depending on its fiber makeup and construction, cloche hats can be formal or casual.

The bowler can be thought of as a cloche with a brim that curls up on both sides, and many sun hats and floppy-brimmed hats are cloche-shaped with widened brims.

The cloche is a close-fitting hat, and should be worn pulled down far enough that your head fills most of the hat.

Comhats cloche |

Comhats cloche

Alexandra (above) wears a beautiful burgundy cloche. Here is a similar cloche from Amazon.

How to wear a beanie / watch cap

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A watch cap is a tightly-knitted hat that’s generally worn in cold weather.

A beanie is basically a watch cap that’s worn toward the back of the head so the top slouches down somewhat.

Currently, the beanie style is quite trendy and you’ll see stylish young women with their hats pushed back and slouchy.

Women over 40 can experiment with this style, but may feel more comfortable in watch caps. Both are casual hats, and can be worn with athletic-wear styled outfits or any casual look.

Woolrich beanie |

Woolrich beanie

Kate (above) matches her beanie to her cardigan.

Outfits with hats: Newsboy cap

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This style can also be called the Baker Boy, Bandit Cap, Apple Cap, Eight Piece Cap, Eight Panel, Cabbie, Jay Gatsby (from The Great Gatsby), Fisherman’s Cap, Pageboy, Applejack Hat, Lundberg Stetson and the Poor Boy Cap.

Whatever you choose to call it, in most cases, this hat has a brim toward the front of the hat, a round top shape, and a button in the center of the hat.

However, rounded caps with shortened front brims like the one seen here, are often called news boy caps, too.

Most news boy caps are made of wool, but they can be made in just about any material. This is a casual hat style, and works best with menswear-influenced outfits.

Brixton fisherman cap |

Brixton fisherman cap

Mayte (above) opts to match her cap with her sweater. Here is a similar newsboy cap you can get from Amazon.


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Bucket hats really do look a lot like upside-down buckets, although they also include soft brims.

This is a soft, floppy style of hat and the brim typically has circles of stitching. You’re most likely to see bucket hats on men, but some women’s styles do pop up.

Most buckets are casual, but they can be worn with smart-casual outfits. This will never be a truly formal hat style, though.

Brixton bucket hat |

Brixton bucket hat

Zdenka (above) wears a cozy, textured bucket hat which matches her pants. Here is a similar teddy bucket hat from Amazon.

Bobble hat

A close relation to the beanie, bobble hats can trace their origin back to sailing, when they stopped sailors heads from being pumped while they ducked under equipment on their boat.

Bobble hats for women over 40 |

Free People bobble beanie

Alison (above) adds pops of red to a neutral outfit. Get a similar bobble hat from Amazon.

Sun hat

If you live, or visit, sunny climes, it’s vital to keep your face protected, and a wide-brimmed sun hat can be the perfect, stylish, way to do so.

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Eric Javis large brim hat |

Eric Javis large brim hat

Greetje (above) looks fabulous in her wide-brimmed sun hat. You can check out this similar sunhat from Amazon.


Originally a hat for women in the 1800s, the boater then became a popular semi-formal option for men.

Nowadays, it’s a stylish option for both!

Wearing a boater hat for women over 40 |
Frye boater hat |

Frye boater hat

Cari (above) shows that beige definitely doesn’t have to be boring. Check out this similar boater hat from Amazon.

Turban or wrap

Joan Collins often rocked a turban in the 80s. Now, the style is definitely having a resurgence after being seen on the Gucci catwalks.

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Home-Organizer Tech twist turban |

Home-Organizer Tech twist turban

Sharryn (above) looks very glamorous with her white turban and over-sized earrings. Check out this similar turban/head wrap from Amazon.

Women’s dress hats: Fascinator

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Fascinators are a little hard to define, but they’re basically a category of headpiece that has been highly embellished.

Fascinators typically sit on one side of the head and clip into the hair, so some might think of them as hair accessories instead of hats.

This style is quite feminine and works best with dresses, skirts, and other ladylike looks.

Fascinators are formal, and can be worn to events with tie dress codes.

FELIZHOUSE fascinator hat |

FELIZHOUSE fascinator hat

Judith (above) matches her hat to the stripes on her dress and shoes.

Choosing a hat for your head shape and figure

In most cases, your head shape is the same as your face shape.

As is the case with glasses, you want to select hats that offset the shape of your face, instead of mirroring it.

If you have a round face

A beret will emphasize it because the hat is round, too. Try an angular fedora instead.

If your face is a long oval

A droopy beanie may make it look even longer. Try a newsboy cap instead.

Trust your instincts

You certainly don’t have to follow this guideline if you like how certain styles of hats look with your face and outfits. Trust your instincts.

Use hats to balance

In some cases, you can use hats to balance your curves and proportions. For instance, if you’re a tall, plus-sized woman, a wide-brimmed floppy hat suits your scale and complements your shape. I

f you’re a petite woman, adding a little height with a fedora can look quite stylish. If you’re very curvy, you can reflect those curves with a rounded cloche.

Also take a look at how to choose a hat for your face shape.

For more tips on finding the right hat for your face shape, please check Judith’s expert tips below.

Tips from hat-wearer extraordinaire Judith Boyd

Tips from hat-wearer extraordinaire Judith Boyd |

Judith has become a dear blogger friend whom I have met in real life as well! (read my interview with her here).

She adores hats and wears them daily, so of course I wanted to pick her brain on her expertise with hats. Here are her answers to my questions.

How does someone choose what hat to wear with each outfit?

Judith: Hats frame the face and finish off any ensemble. I usually start with a hat when I choose the pieces for an outfit, but you can start with anything.

A dress, suit, pants, shoes or even a piece of jewelry. I then proceed from the starting point considering color, shape, silhouette, event, occasion, mood and weather/season. For me it’s a meditation and an important way to express myself.

If you’re new to hat wearing, allow yourself to be a beginner. It might feel more comfortable to put your outfit together first, and then add a hat.

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You could start with something understated and color neutral, like a beret or fedora.

Scanning thrift shops or consignment stores is an inexpensive way to begin. Wear the hat for a short period of time at first, such as out to coffee or a walk in the park.

Just like any new behavior, It takes a bit of practice, but you may notice that you get a better seat at a restaurant or someone may say, “That’s a great hat!”

Before long, it may become a habit and then you are hooked! I was known to tell customers in the hat shop to, “just put the hat on your head and walk.”

It’s not a life long commitment, and you can always take it off and try again another day.

Which kind of outfits suit a head wrap?

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I’ve learned over the years that a head wrap can be worn with any outfit.

This viewpoint has been enhanced by the blogs and Instagram sites of women who make or wear head wraps on a daily basis.

A head wrap can be casual or dressy, depending on the fabric. If you’re comfortable in a head wrap and enjoy wearing it, it shows. Which is true for any accessory.

How do you carry off a hat when no one else in your friendship group wears a hat?

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It doesn’t bother me to wear hats around those who never or seldom do. I’m confident in my own choices and I don’t need the approval of others to wear what I love.

But then I’ve been wearing hats since the 70’s, and it’s second nature to me. That’s 40 years of practice!

I find that most of my friends accept that this is who I am and that hats are a part of me.

I’m of the opinion that if someone doesn’t like my hat, they won’t approach me or be interested in getting to know me. Why would I want a relationship with someone who feels uncomfortable about my hat?

What are your best tips for other women when it comes to wearing hats?

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The perfect fit

Finding a hat that fits is the first step to wearing it. 

The proper measurement to find your hat size is to measure your head circumference at the center of your upper forehead, which is about an inch above your ears.

Are you average size?

The average hat size for a woman is 22 inches. Most hats aren’t sold by size, but it’s helpful to know if your head is small, medium or large.

How to change the size

If a hat that you adore is too large or too small, there are ways to fix that problem. If you are near a millinery shop or millinery supply store, you should be able to purchase hat size reducers, which include foam and felt hat inserts or size adjustable sweatbands.

If your hat is too small, it’s possible to have your chapeau stretched with a hat stretching device.

Break the rules

When I purchase a hat, I don’t abide by rules that consider the shape of my face, which is square.

If I love the hat and the mirror reflects pleasure, it’s mine.

Don’t just look at your head

I do use a full length mirror so as to be aware of proportion and silhouette. Some say that the brim should not be larger than the width of your shoulders.

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How to choose the best hat for your face shape

However, there are suggestions that can be considered regarding face shape if you are so inclined:

If your face is round

Choose a hat that has a broad or irregular brim, a prominent crown and vertical design features to balance out the fullness of your face.

If your face is square

Choose an asymmetrical hat to balance the angle of your jawline.

An irregular brim and prominent crown will make your face appear longer and wearing your hat at an angle will soften your face.

If your face is rectangle

Choose hats with full or uplifted brims and avoid high crowns and small brims that make you face look longer.

If your face is triangular

Choose any hat that adds width at the forehead. Asymmetric brims and crowns with some height will draw attention upwards.

If your face is diamond

Choose hats with medium brims to avoid making your forehead and chin more narrow. Wide hat bands help to visually widen your forehead.

If your face is heart-shaped or oval

There are no limitations.

How to travel with hats |

How to travel with hats?

Traveling with hats involves planning. I have a collection of fabric and packable hats that pack easily and retain their shape.

If I have a special occasion in another city, I have been known to send special hats ahead and they are available when I arrive.

How to make sure that hats stay on?

There are times when strategies are necessary to keep a hat, fascinator or headpiece on your head.

There are options available from online millinery supply sites if you don’t have resources in your community. Combs, elastics headbands or hat pins can be used for this purpose.

I prefer round elastic cords with barbed ends, 12 inches in length, which hold a hat in position by placing the barbs into the crown near its edge or in the inner hat band, if there is one.

The elastic is positioned under the hair on the back of the head. My hair is short, so this works best for me. If you have long or medium length hair, you may prefer other options.

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How to combine your hat with your hair?

Speaking of hair, which is important to most of us, finding a hat that fits for your style may take experimentation.

Wearing your hair up or down is all about personal preference, comfort level and whatever pleases your eye.

Browsing online images of women wearing hats provides ideas and guidance.

As a passionate hat wearer, I have my hair cut to go well with hats. Not everyone wants to make that commitment!

Matching your hat to your skin tone

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You may want to consider choosing a hat that flatters your skin tone, as it’s an accessory that kisses your face.

Starting out with neutral colors and graduating to bold hues after you feel comfortable with headwear is one way to start a small collection.

What about hat hair?

Some women complain about “hat hair” after wearing a hat and taking it off. I wear my hat all day (unless I change hats) once it’s found a place on my head, which is appropriate etiquette for women.

I avoid wearing hats with tall crowns to the theater, which would be the only reason I can think of to take my hat off. I wouldn’t want to block someone’s view!

How to wear your hat

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During the time that I owned my hat shop, I encouraged many women to purchase their first hat. I like to wear my hats low on my forehead, and many times tilted at a jaunty angle, usually over the right eye.

I would adjust hats for my customers and they would observe in the mirror the difference a small change could make in how the hat looked on their head.

I would encourage you to pull the brim of your hat lower on your forehead than you think you should, and slowly pull it up from there until it pleases you.

Playing with hats without brims can be managed in a similar manner. Sometimes a hat can be worn backwards or to the side, to create a totally different silhouette. Experiment and have fun!

How to store your hats

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I’m a hat collector, and I have many hats. I store my hats in hat boxes when they aren’t in season and display them when in season.

For example, I display my felt hats in fall/winter and my straw hats in spring/summer. I have various styles of hat racks and shelves for this purpose.

I have a number of delicate hats that I keep in hat boxes at all times, so as not to expose them to dust.

Before storing hats in boxes, I clean them with a hat brush (which again can be purchased from a millinery supply site) and store them in tissue paper, making sure that the shape of the hat is protected.

If you’re new to wearing hats, it will be easy to care for a small number and it won’t be complicated.

I’ve discovered these tips as a hat lover over the past 40 years. You may develop your own practices as you explore the wonderful world of hat wearing! Hats have added a beautiful dimension to my life and I hope that you find enjoyment in discovering the art that is headwear.

How to wear hats in summer

While it’s obvious you will want to wear a warm hat to keep you cozy in colder months, a hat is also a summer essential.

What completes a great summer outfit?

That’s right. The light straw hat! Great to shield yourself from the sun and often a stylish final touch to your outfit.

Below are some example of 40+women wearing summer hats. (photographed by Denton Taylor).

A black and white outfit with a hat |
How to wear a hat style inspiration for women over 40 |
Looking chic in a straw hat |
How to wear a hat style inspiration for women over 40 |
Wearing hats in summer |
Wide brim hats |

More inspiration on how to wear your hat!

Below is more inspiration on how to wear your hat. These photos were taken by Denton Taylor.

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Don’t you just love these colors and that very unique hat of Valerie’s? You may recognise her as one of the Idiosyncratic Fashionistas featured before this style interview. Love this picture of her.

Valerie wearing a unique hat |
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Teresa Taylor

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Dayle, Shelley and Valerie

3 ladies we have featured before all looking fabulous: Dayle (her style interview), Shelley (her style interview) and Valerie on another day.

Hat inspiration for women over 40 |

Black & White top hat

Hat inspiration |

A red beret

How to wear a hat style inspiration for women over 40 |

Love the look of this woman. Super chic & edgy.

Black and white mix

Hat inspiration |

Great outfit accessorized with the most beautiful smile.

Vintage style

Hat inspiration for women over 40 |

This couple fits the vintage show so well in their beautiful vintage attire.

Brown beret

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A hat can be subtle too like this beautiful beret. Great outfit too!


Hat inspiration |

And here is the other half of the couple that makes the Idiosyncratic Fashionistas. Jean too embraced color on this day. Read her style interview here.


Hat inspiration |

Shelley looking gorgeous on her second day too.

A hat that pops

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What better way to add a bit of color than a bright blue hat? Fun!

Elegant cowboy style

Hat inspiration for women over 40 |

A unique look that combines classic elements with a cowboy vibe.


Hat inspiration |

Home stylist and artist Patricia Fox, also known as Purely Patricia, looks colorful and happy in this ensemble.


How to wear a hat style inspiration for women over 40 |

This couple look gorgeous and classically chic.


Head turban for women |

A Chic monochromatic look.

Round hat

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Finally this hat is a lovely example of how a fabulous hat can make an outfit instantly more chic and fabulous.

How to you like to wear a hat? Which of these hat looks is your favorite?

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